If you're concerned about a loved one's skewed views on relationships and society, these books can serve as a gentle guide towards understanding and empathy. Each selection offers insights into healthy relationships, feminism, and the importance of diverse perspectives. Encourage your brother to explore these narratives and challenge his current beliefs.
Xenocide
409 pages
Xenocide is part of a series that deepens the understanding of empathy, making it a worthwhile read for those on a journey of self-improvement.
Speaker for the Dead
305 pages
The rest of the series, including Speaker for the Dead, continues to explore themes of empathy, providing valuable lessons for personal development.
Ender's Game
389 pages
Ender's Game is an easy read that can help teach empathy and compassion, making it a great choice for anyone looking to grow emotionally.
Children Of The Mind
267 pages
Children of the Mind further expands on the themes of the series, offering insights that can help readers cultivate compassion.
A People's History of the United States
675 pages
Zinn's historical perspective could be valuable, but it might only appeal to those already interested in history.
Cultures of Authenticity
398 pages
Hasanabi is a Twitch streamer who can be a great introduction to leftism, especially for those who might have conservative views. Watching him can lead to a more tolerant and happier perspective on life.
A Wizard of Earthsea
267 pages
Le Guin's work is not only beautifully written but also subtly feminist, which could resonate more with your brother than more overtly political texts.
The Ministry for the Future
579 pages
Robinson's optimistic approach to sci-fi and his respect for women make his writing a great choice for someone looking for thoughtful literature.
12 Rules For Life
464 pages
This book is great for anyone looking to improve various aspects of their life, regardless of their political views.
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck
197 pages
While I didn't find much value in it, I think it could resonate with incels, offering them a perspective that might be helpful.
The Perks of Being a Wallflower
240 pages
This book offers a genuine portrayal of a teenage boy facing real-life issues, including complex relationships and personal struggles, making it a compelling read for anyone looking to understand the nuances of adolescence.
Beyond Order
483 pages
This sequel expands on his previous work, offering deeper wisdom and strategies for finding meaning in a chaotic world.
12 Rules for Life
450 pages
This book serves as a beacon of hope, encouraging readers to take control of their lives rather than blaming others, making it particularly impactful for those feeling lost in a depressing world.
Dauntless
254 pages
This book focuses on positive self-habits and life-affirming values, offering actual suggestions for those feeling lost. It provides a perspective that respects both self and others, making it a great read for anyone looking to steer someone in a positive direction.
The Millionaire Fastlane
337 pages
This book offers a fresh perspective on entrepreneurialism, encouraging readers to think outside their usual channels and make transformative changes in their lives.
Notes from Underground
150 pages
A fascinating dive into the mind of a man who feels alienated from society, living literally underground.
Crime and Punishment
449 pages
This book explores the psychological turmoil of a young egotistical student who grapples with morality and guilt.
The Four Agreements
163 pages
In The Four Agreements, bestselling author don Miguel Ruiz reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, The Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love. • A New York Times bestseller for over a decade • Translated into 50 languages worldwide “This book by don Miguel Ruiz, simple yet so powerful, has made a tremendous difference in how I think and act in every encounter.” — Oprah Winfrey “Don Miguel Ruiz’s book is a roadmap to enlightenment and freedom.” — Deepak Chopra, Author, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success “An inspiring book with many great lessons.” — Wayne Dyer, Author, Real Magic “In the tradition of Castaneda, Ruiz distills essential Toltec wisdom, expressing with clarity and impeccability what it means for men and women to live as peaceful warriors in the modern world.” — Dan Millman, Author, Way of the Peaceful Warrior
Are Women Human?
Dorothy L. Sayers' essays challenge the notion of 'aggressive feminism' from the 1930s, advocating for individual choice and freedom in defining one's role in life. Her insights resonate with modern intersectional feminism, making her work a thought-provoking starting point for discussions on gender roles.
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
522 pages
The definitive eBook edition of the New York Times bestselling classic named #1 Most Influential Business Book of the 20th Century by Forbes. Since its first publication in 1989, The 7 Habits of Highly Influential People has been translated into more than forty languages and sold tens of millions of copies around the world. Stephen R. Covey’s timeless wisdom has inspired people of all ages and walks of life to not only improve their businesses and careers but to live with integrity, service, dignity, and success in all areas of life. This definitive eBook edition includes forwards by Stephen R. Covey, Jim Collins, and Covey’s children. “Every so often a book comes along that not only alters the lives of readers but leaves an imprint on the culture itself. The 7 Habits is one of those books.”—Daniel Pink, author of Drive and To Sell is Human
Annihilation
209 pages
Annihilation is a captivating read featuring strong female scientists navigating a mysterious and eerie environmental conspiracy. It offers a unique perspective on empathy and exploration, all while being a trippy mind-bending experience. It's a great choice for those who appreciate complex relationships without the heavy-handed feminism that might deter some readers.
The Laws of Human Nature
550 pages
This book might be even more beneficial for your brother, and I highly recommend it alongside Mastery!
Can't Hurt Me
386 pages
This book will change your outlook on life by teaching you how to master your mind and overcome challenges.
Mastery
354 pages
Greene uses historical examples of great minds like Davinci and Mozart to illustrate that mastery comes from passion and hard work, not just natural talent. This book is a yearly read for me, as it emphasizes trusting your instincts and working diligently to achieve greatness.
Know My Name
319 pages
This book offers a powerful exploration of feminism and the dynamics between men and women, making it easy to empathize with the author's experiences. However, it's important to note that the narrative centers around the author's sexual assault, which may not be suitable for all readers.